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Father of 63, and counting: meet the modern sperm donor

Seeded on Sun Jun 27, 2010 3:11 PM EDT
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Houben has been donating sperm for more than 10 years now, first at the local sperm bank and then, after reaching the clinic's legal limit, privately via the internet. Most of his donating is done in his neat, modest flat on an estate on the outskirts of the Dutch town. The T-shirt he's wearing, which declares "Anytime, anyplace, anywhere, anyway", is actually a bit misleading. "In the old days I would gladly travel, and my colleagues covered for me if I was late to work," he says. "But my job at Maastricht's tourism office has changed and I have to be around much more. Now I ask people to come to me."

And they do, from all over the world. Houben has biological offspring in Australia, Israel, Canada, Cyprus, Germany and Luxembourg, as well as at home in the Netherlands. His current tally of donor-conceived children stands at an eye-watering 62, with the 63rd on the way. It is by no means a world record – Houben once watched an episode of Oprah about a man who has fathered 200, a number he says he'll never catch. But he has been called Europe's most prolific sperm donor, and he's happy to accept the title until someone has the, well, balls to challenge him.

In his late thirties, Houben is on what you'd term the cuddly side, and he'd be the first to deprecate his looks, although the digital photo frame that's scrolling through his brood – some fair, some dark, some hairless, puckered babies – reveals an unexpectedly attractive crop of kids. He's genial, bright and witty on the subject of his pastime; but what his recipients value most of all is his commitment.

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And it is not only risky for women. Unless they donate to a licensed clinic, men aren't exempt from parental and financial responsibility for any begetting they do. In 2007, Andy Bathie, a fireman who fathered two children to a lesbian couple, lost a test case against the Child Support Agency, which had demanded he pay maintenance when the mothers split up. For serial donors, however altruistic their motives might be, it is a potentially bankrupting situation.

It begs the question: why do it?
[...]

To try to find an answer I head online and discover John, a regular donor who went private after he reached his NHS quota and is, like Houben, in considerable demand.

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Reply#1 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 3:14 PM EDT
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This sounds more than a bit risky:

"And like many of the online donors, he is also an experienced practitioner in "natural insemination" – in other words, sex. Sperm donor forums bristle with terminology, but the most regularly used are AI and NI, and there is considerable debate in the community as to whether offering NI makes you a hero, an opportunist or a pervert."

Despite his proven genetic record, this involves a lack of screening for STDs on the final specimen. Sure, his tests may have been fine last month, but how many NI "procedures" has he performed since then, and with whom?

I would also think the kids conceived this way might have an even easier claim to child support, as the female customer could claim she actually backed out of the contract, but returned later for consensual sex. How could he prove she did not?

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#1.1 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 8:42 PM EDT
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